Loved By You

The next entry for my Blog is Loved By You, which was written by Paul T. Duncan, Jeffrey Thomas Pardo, and Riley Clemmons.  It was first released May 19, 2023.  A link to Riley Clemmons singing the song is at the bottom of the Blog.

Sometimes I feel like I’m alone
A bit too broken, unseen, unknown
Sometimes the doubt starts creeping in
So come remind me once again

I am believed in, I am held on to
Don’t have to wonder who I belong to
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true
I am loved by you

Hmm, it’s in your blood, it’s in your scars
How far you’d go to reach my heart
You call me chosen, you call me yours
And that’s all that matters forevermore

I am believed in, I am held on to
Don’t have to wonder who I belong to
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true
I am loved by you

Loved by you
Ooh, yeah

I don’t deserve it, I never could
But you’re just that faithful, you’re just that good
How lovely it is to be loved by you
I don’t deserve it, I never could
But you’re just that faithful, you’re just that good
How lovely it is to be loved by you, yeah!

I am believed in (I am believed in), I am held on to (held on to)
Don’t have to wonder (I don’t have to) who I belong to (who I belong to)
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true (it’s true, it’s true)
I am loved by you

I am loved by you
I am loved, loved by you, oh, yeah
I am loved by you

Do you ever feel as if you are completely alone and almost as if you have been abandoned?   Sometimes we probably all get the feeling that we are really alone in this world and no one really cares about us.  Maybe we ask ourselves the question, if I died tomorrow, how long would it be before anyone even knew I was gone?  Once this doubt gets into our head, we really start wondering about our life and whether or not anyone cares about us.  Maybe this feeling is triggered by a bad day a work, an accident, an argument with someone you love, or maybe a broken relationship.  The more we think about it, the more insecure we become.  We start thinking that perhaps we truly are all alone and always will be.  Have you been there before or perhaps even feel this way as you start to listen to this song?

The chorus of this song reminds us that we are never alone and that we are loved more than we can even imagine.  In the book of Matthew 28:20, we find this promise from Jesus, And lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.”  The chorus of the song reinforces the fact that no matter how we feel about ourselves and others around us, we are always loved.  I think the real issue is that although Jesus is always with us, once we have accepted him as God’s son, we seem to forget about him and his omnipresence.  Once we stop and take the time to open our hearts again, we feel his love and compassion.  We are then reminded that he is always there and that he has never deserted us nor will he ever desert us.  I suppose the real question is, why do we seem to forget about Jesus; especially in the most challenging times in our lives?  Think about what he did for us; see the scars on his hands and feet from the nails, see the scars on his back from the beating, the scars on his head from the crown of thorns, and remember how he was put into a tomb.  What is even more amazing is that he came back from the dead, to provide even more proof that he is eternal and is the son of God.  If he did all of this just for each of us, why do we forget him in our daily lives?  As the song says, we are always wanted, treasured, and loved by him.

Do we really deserve the love and promises of Jesus, I don’t think so; in fact, I know there is no way we could repay Jesus for his sacrifice for us.  The really good news is that all he asks of us is to accept him for who he is, the sacrificial lamb that died on the cross for each of us so we could spend eternity with him.  How many times have we turned our backs on him through our actions and words?  Although we are unfaithful to him, he is always faithful to us; no matter what we have said or done in our lives.  We don’t deserve his love, but he gives it to us anyway.  Jesus loves us with an unfailing and eternal love.  He will always be there to pick us up and dust us off when we fall.  He is there with us in our deepest darkest moments.  We are his greatest treasure; we are his children.  We are told in the book of 1 John 3:1-2, “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is.”

The greatest treasures we will ever have are the love of Jesus and being able to spend eternity with him.  Always remember that he is your number one fan, the one who is always with you, and never leaves your side.

 Select to Hear Riley Clemmons Sing Loved By You

Hold On To Me

The next entry for my Blog is Hold On To Me, which was written by Lauren Daigle, Paul Brendon Mabury, and Paul Duncan.  The song was initially released in 2021.  A link to Lauren Daigle performing the song is at the bottom of the Blog.

Hold On To Me

When the best of me is barely breathin’
When I’m not somebody I believe in
Hold on to me

When I miss the light the night has stolen
When I’m slammin’ all the doors You’ve opened
Hold on to me
Hold on to me

Hold on to me when it’s too dark to see You
When I am sure I have reached the end
Hold on to me when I forget I need You
When I let go, hold me again

When I don’t feel like I’m worth defending
When I’m tired of all my pretending
Hold on to me

When I start to break in desperation
Underneath the weight of expectation
Hold on to me
Hold on to me

Hold on to me when it’s too dark to see You (I’ll hold on)
When I am sure I have reached the end
Hold on to me when I forget I need You (I’ll hold on)
When I let go, hold me again

I could rest here in Your arms forever
‘Cause I know nobody loves me better
Hold on to me
Hold on to me

Have you ever gotten the feeling that all you do every day is fight one battle after another just to survive in this world?  The battles may be associated with just putting food on the table, dealing with family issues, health, or external influences that just sap all of your energy.  You fight these battles every single day and eventually reach the point where you have nothing else to give and all of your emotional and physical strength is gone.  You are no longer the person you used to be and are ready to just throw up your hands and say I quit.  The person you are ceases to exist in your mind, the world has defeated you, and you cry out to God to hold on to you and not give up on you.  Despite where you are in your life, you can still know that God is always there and his arms are always open for you. 

When we find ourselves in this situation, we sometimes become focused solely on the negative issues in our lives and view everything that goes on around us with a negative perspective.  We do not even try to look for the positive.  Many times, windows of light and doors are being opened right in front of us, and we disregard them since we are lost in the morass of darkness we are living in.  Our friends try to talk to us and cheer us up, but we just ignore them; we have the attitude of “they just don’t understand.”

The chorus is a desperate plea for help.  We may have reached a point where we are just ready to leave this world via suicide or perhaps give into the call of drugs that give us short term relief before a final addiction ends our life.  The plea to God is that even though I have forgotten you, please wrap your arms around me and never let me go.   In the book of Deuteronomy 31:8, we find these words, “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

As we start to question the value of our life, maybe we have the attitude of “why bother” and why should my friends continue to try and bring me out of this deep hole, I am just not worth the wasted effort.  We just feel as if we are putting up a façade to everyone else, but fading away and giving up on the inside.  We can no longer handle the weight of the burdens as we try to carry them alone nor can we meet the expectations of all of those around us.  The good news is that our savior is there to help us with your heavy load.  We are told in Matthew 11:28-30, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. “

I really like the way she closes out this song; because at the end she has once again found peace, comfort, and love; all coming from our heavenly father.  She recognizes that her focus should only be on him since he is the only one who can solve our problems and loves us more than anyone else ever could.  The great news for us, is not only does God love us, but has a plan for us!  This comfort is found in the book of Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you, plans to give you hope and a future”.  We need to try and remember to look to God first as opposed to viewing him as our last hope.

Click to hear Lauren Daigle Sing Hold On To Me