Loved By You

The next entry for my Blog is Loved By You, which was written by Paul T. Duncan, Jeffrey Thomas Pardo, and Riley Clemmons.  It was first released May 19, 2023.  A link to Riley Clemmons singing the song is at the bottom of the Blog.

Sometimes I feel like I’m alone
A bit too broken, unseen, unknown
Sometimes the doubt starts creeping in
So come remind me once again

I am believed in, I am held on to
Don’t have to wonder who I belong to
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true
I am loved by you

Hmm, it’s in your blood, it’s in your scars
How far you’d go to reach my heart
You call me chosen, you call me yours
And that’s all that matters forevermore

I am believed in, I am held on to
Don’t have to wonder who I belong to
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true
I am loved by you

Loved by you
Ooh, yeah

I don’t deserve it, I never could
But you’re just that faithful, you’re just that good
How lovely it is to be loved by you
I don’t deserve it, I never could
But you’re just that faithful, you’re just that good
How lovely it is to be loved by you, yeah!

I am believed in (I am believed in), I am held on to (held on to)
Don’t have to wonder (I don’t have to) who I belong to (who I belong to)
I’m always wanted, always known
And always treasured, it’s true (it’s true, it’s true)
I am loved by you

I am loved by you
I am loved, loved by you, oh, yeah
I am loved by you

Do you ever feel as if you are completely alone and almost as if you have been abandoned?   Sometimes we probably all get the feeling that we are really alone in this world and no one really cares about us.  Maybe we ask ourselves the question, if I died tomorrow, how long would it be before anyone even knew I was gone?  Once this doubt gets into our head, we really start wondering about our life and whether or not anyone cares about us.  Maybe this feeling is triggered by a bad day a work, an accident, an argument with someone you love, or maybe a broken relationship.  The more we think about it, the more insecure we become.  We start thinking that perhaps we truly are all alone and always will be.  Have you been there before or perhaps even feel this way as you start to listen to this song?

The chorus of this song reminds us that we are never alone and that we are loved more than we can even imagine.  In the book of Matthew 28:20, we find this promise from Jesus, And lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.”  The chorus of the song reinforces the fact that no matter how we feel about ourselves and others around us, we are always loved.  I think the real issue is that although Jesus is always with us, once we have accepted him as God’s son, we seem to forget about him and his omnipresence.  Once we stop and take the time to open our hearts again, we feel his love and compassion.  We are then reminded that he is always there and that he has never deserted us nor will he ever desert us.  I suppose the real question is, why do we seem to forget about Jesus; especially in the most challenging times in our lives?  Think about what he did for us; see the scars on his hands and feet from the nails, see the scars on his back from the beating, the scars on his head from the crown of thorns, and remember how he was put into a tomb.  What is even more amazing is that he came back from the dead, to provide even more proof that he is eternal and is the son of God.  If he did all of this just for each of us, why do we forget him in our daily lives?  As the song says, we are always wanted, treasured, and loved by him.

Do we really deserve the love and promises of Jesus, I don’t think so; in fact, I know there is no way we could repay Jesus for his sacrifice for us.  The really good news is that all he asks of us is to accept him for who he is, the sacrificial lamb that died on the cross for each of us so we could spend eternity with him.  How many times have we turned our backs on him through our actions and words?  Although we are unfaithful to him, he is always faithful to us; no matter what we have said or done in our lives.  We don’t deserve his love, but he gives it to us anyway.  Jesus loves us with an unfailing and eternal love.  He will always be there to pick us up and dust us off when we fall.  He is there with us in our deepest darkest moments.  We are his greatest treasure; we are his children.  We are told in the book of 1 John 3:1-2, “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is.”

The greatest treasures we will ever have are the love of Jesus and being able to spend eternity with him.  Always remember that he is your number one fan, the one who is always with you, and never leaves your side.

 Select to Hear Riley Clemmons Sing Loved By You

Man on the Middle Cross

The next entry for my Blog is Man on the Middle Cross, which was written by AJ Pruis, Matt Jenkins, Matthew West, and Rhett Walker.  It was first released July 21, 2023.  A link to Rhett Walker singing the song is at the bottom of the Blog.


Heard the Preacher talking about three wood crosses
Up on a hill everyone to see
Two sinners on the outside couldn’t save themselves if they tried
All I could think is man that sounds like me

I’ve been the one on the left full of guilt and regret
Long gone on the wrong side of living
I’ve been the one on the right always looking for a fight thinking I could never be forgiving
I’m standing here today
Overwhelmed by grace cause I know who paid my cost
Thank God
for the man on the middle cross

He didn’t have to do it But for me it went thru it
A love like that I’ll never understand
Lord knows I don’t deserve it And I know I couldn’t earn it
Mercy rained down on this desperate man
 
The cross is where he went
But that ain’t where he stayed
He brought me back to life when He rose up out of that grave
Someday I’ll stand before him
See Jesus face to face
I’ll worship and adore him
For a life forever changed

Perhaps many of you reading this blog were not aware of the crosses that are spoken of in Christian religions, maybe some of you know about the cross Jesus died upon, and some of you may be familiar with the three crosses this song talks about.  The bible does indeed tell us there were three crosses together, with Jesus being on the center cross and felons on the other two crosses.  We find this in the book of Luke 23:33, “When they came to the place called the Skull, they crucified him there, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left.”   The mount where the crucifixion occurred was call Golgotha, which translates into the word skull from the Aramaic language.  As the preacher was delivering the message that the song writer heard, maybe it was the first time the writer had really listened to the scripture about the crosses.  So many times, we may be the same way, the message may be one we have been aware of for years, but we never allowed it to resonate in our life.  I believe most people who are aware of Jesus are probably aware that he died on a cross, but have little awareness of the fact that two criminals were also crucified on either side of him.  The good news is that Jesus came back to life after his death on the cross, but the two sinners on either side of him had no chance of returning to life on this earth,

Obviously, none of us are perfect and most, if not all of us, struggle to be the best person we can be every single day in our life.  The writer of the song assigns backgrounds to each of the two people on either side of Jesus, the purpose is so he can help show all of us how we may fit into the scenario.  How many times have you felt guilty about something?  Maybe your guilt is from long ago or maybe it is from a few hours ago; but how does it make you feel inside?  Sometimes I sit and reflect on the past and think about the things I should not have done and the people I may have hurt.  As I do this reflection, I think it was very insensitive of me to say what I said or act the way I did.  This is when we are similar to the person hanging on the cross on the left.  We realize where we have failed in our life and finally recognize that the acceptance of Jesus as our Lord and savior is the only way to gain eternal life.  We have come to the realization that we can never gain eternal life until we give our soul to Jesus.

Unfortunately, some of us are similar to the man on the other cross.  We are bitter, vindictive, and only care about ourselves.  In common vernacular, these types of people are recognized as hardened criminals who are unwilling to ever change.  We go about our lives without even thinking about who we hurt.  The hurt we inflict may be emotional, violent, physical, or destructive.  The goal is to gain whatever we can without even considering the damage we cause along the way.  We form the opinion that because we believe that no one loves us or cares for us anyway, why should be act any different.  Our most secure prisons are most likely filled with people of this mentality.  There are also many people roaming the streets today who have the same mindset of if I want it, I will take it and are willing to harm anyone who gets in their way.  This is perhaps the mindset of the man on the cross on the other side of Jesus.  We find the scripture about the two criminals in the book of Luke 23:39-43, One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him: “Aren’t you the Messiah? Save yourself and us!”  But the other criminal rebuked him. “Don’t you fear God,” he said, “since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong.”  Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.”  Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.”

Regardless of which camp of people we fall into, God views us all as disobedient to him.  He doesn’t evaluate us based on the wrongs/sins we have committed; he just knows that we have not accepted his son as our savior.  He also knows we are walking through a world that we can’t control and that we feel all alone with no hope.  All of us are on the first cross I mentioned above at all times and some of us cross over to the other cross if we wander too far away from where we should be.  This takes us to the middle cross, where Jesus, the son of God, was hanging.  He died on that cross and when he died that day, he gave us grace.  Grace basically means that if we accept him as the son of God and his sacrifice for us, then all of the wrongs we have committed in our past and all of the wrongs we will commit in the future have been forgiven.  God then views us as a perfect being and no longer sees the blemishes we gathered over a lifetime.  This is basically what transpired with the criminal the writer depicted as being on the left side of the three crosses.  It doesn’t mean we will be perfect in our actions and thoughts every day, but it does mean that we have an eternal life in front of us as we traverse the way to heaven.

Just imagine someone loving you so much that they would lay down their life for you.  I can’t even begin to imagine what it will be like to finally see Jesus face to face and worship him and thank him for dying for me and coming back to life just to help me realize that he truly is the son of God.  The cross couldn’t kill his spirit, the tomb could not contain his body, and nothing on earth could stop him from walking among his disciples three days after he came out of that tomb.

Which of the people on the cross would you most likely be if you were on Golgotha that fateful day?  Would you be the one who believed in Christ or the one who rejected him?  Now is probably a good time to do a self-assessment to determine the priorities in your life and where Christ fits.  We will all face death one day, we just don’t know when.  The good news is that we can decide today on which cross we would have hung long ago.

Click to Hear Rhett Walker Sing Man On The Middle Cross

Come As You Are – Entry #4 of 5

Today I will focus on the following portion of the song,

All who are broken
Lift up your face
Oh wanderer come home
You’re not too far
So lay down your hurt
Lay down your heart
Come as you are

Are you broken? What does it even mean to be broken? These are difficult questions, but the reality is we are all broken. How we are broken differs for each of us. A person who is broken is someone who feels as if they are not worthy, they are undeserving, they have lost their way in life, and perhaps as if they are alone in a cold dark world. Maybe our brokenness comes from actual or perceived failures in our lives, the way others have treated us, where we live, or just the general environment around us. It is easy for the broken person to fall into a state of depression as they feel they loneliness and failure seeping in. I also believe we sometimes become broken due to a tragedy in our lives, such as a loss of a loved one. Not that we have done anything wrong, but there is now a hole in our heart that we are not sure how to mend.

With a defeated and broken spirit, we hang our heads, our demeanor changes, and the way we carry ourselves reflects how we feel. We essentially have a broken spirit and have given up on our life, we have become the prodigal son that the bible tells us about in Luke 15:11-32. It is during these times, in our darkest hours, that we need to lift up our hearts and faces to God. In this time of our greatest need, he alone can heal the pain and loneliness we are feeling. Psalms 34:18 reminds us that God is always there to take care of us: “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

He feels our pain and he asks us to feel his love and open our hearts to his peace and his will for your life. He heals the brokenness and reminds us we are his children and nothing can take away his love for us or the plans he has for us. It doesn’t matter if we have wandered away from God and that we have not been opening our hearts to him as we should, he still loves us and has his hand open to us at all times. Yes it might be challenging for us to hold our head up again, to admit our failures, confess our sins, and admit how we have turned away from him. We just need to come back to him and put our pain, suffering, and brokenness at his feet. As he reaches out to us, we will feel his warm, his love, and I am sure a look of compassion and a smile would be on his face if we could see it.

All we need to do, is to humble ourselves before God and give him all our suffering and our pain and he will heal our broken heart and our broken spirit. We only need to come as we are.